You Do It Behind My Back Anyway!
October 27, 2009Why can’t people just tell straight your face what they think? I don’t know, maybe it’s a recessive trait in this world, but I think if people could put their anger aside, and just accept the truth about alot of things, we would be better off.
Their reason? rude, self centered,low down,low self-esteem people talk behind peoples back because they can’t say it to our face and never willl be able to.. but this is the way they live there lives before we met them and will continue to live there lives till the day they die…there is nothing we can do about it.. just make it a positive thing. If people wanna talk behind our backs let them because at the end of the day people who live in the past lose their future and people who live for today lose their past. I don’t know why that is but maybe because their jealous and have nothing better to do then just be freaks - shame on them!
If I feel like someone is talking about me, I will confront them and ask them if they have a problem with whatever it is that I’m doing. If they say yes, thet I ask them what they are going to do about it. Most generally, they won’t do anything and feel stupid and even DENY it! It’s all about how that person reacts when you confront them. If they are an a–hole or be the denial queen, they will feel stupid and shut up. If they are a friend, then discuss the problem to get it out in the open so that you can move on. Depends on if it’s a friend or just someone you see around, or even someone you don’t know.
Rather than sitting around lying, gossiping, backstabbing or say to everyone from the smallest things to the largest things. Grow old girl! It’s not hard, I mean you do it behind people’s backs all the time, so what’s the difference? Don’t be outright malicious but people ask your opinion for a reason.
