Their reason? rude, self centered,low down,low self-esteem people talk behind peoples back because they can't say it to our face and never willl be able to.. but this is the way they live there lives before we met them and will continue to live there lives till the day they die...there is nothing we can do about it.. just make it a positive thing. If people wanna talk behind our backs let them because at the end of the day people who live in the past lose their future and people who live for today lose their past. I don't know why that is but maybe because their jealous and have nothing better to do then just be freaks - shame on them!  

  
If I feel like someone is talking about me, I will confront them and ask them if they have a problem with whatever it is that I'm doing. If they say yes, thet I ask them what they are going to do about it. Most generally, they won't do anything and feel stupid and even DENY it! It's all about how that person reacts when you confront them. If they are an a--hole or be the denial queen, they will feel stupid and shut up. If they are a friend, then discuss the problem to get it out in the open so that you can move on. Depends on if it's a friend or just someone you see around, or even someone you don't know.

Rather than sitting around lying, gossiping, backstabbing or say to everyone from the smallest things to the largest things. Grow old girl! It's not hard, I mean you do it behind people's backs all the time, so what's the difference? Don't be outright malicious but people ask your opinion for a reason.  

If you grew up thinking people are generally good, you must have some disease that requires you to live in a bubble where somebody brings you food and compliments. Let me pop it for you: People are generally bad. They will burn you faster than a forgotten pizza. Everyone looks out for number one and is in a race to make their first million. Should you be the unlucky prick who stands in the way, watching your back because your ass is wearing a bull's-eye? 

Yes i admit, I hated publicity. People recently feel like they are in the era of boisterously insensitive persona. I mean insensitive. They aspired invisibility of others, not to mention their plain insensitivity. The sense of sight is abused, Respect for others is deprived. Abuse of materials and resources is just secondary on their list. Friends? not a matter. Family? not considered. What else is worst? BACKSTABBING. Despite tons of consideration given, people tend to talk at your back. Taking it on a negative note, not on a positive side. Well "he/she" probably good at saying this game, but he/she is the one who plays this around... no wonder why he/she got no friends over the rainbow... I mean people tend to not to mingle with him/her. In fact, one said, I don’t like her from the start which I and we realize in the latter part. We have laws to follow so why break it to make your "name" or his/her "name" sound more positive to others. The law is a basic rule to follow. Then why break it? and in the end people will suffer from your stupid and nonsense accusations that they do not follow such? Is this impersonality a scheme for survival? Or a scheme to sound more nice and smell more fragrant to others.

See? That is the thing with you Plastics. You think that everybody is in love with you, when actually, everybody hates you.

Is this perplexing? I guess no. Its obviously them portraying invisibility and deep sense of insensitivity. They would stay hidden from others without considering others not even their family. No enticing portrait of the artists on our page. No illustrations and irresponsibility is thrown against and generalized to all. No reviews. 

Gossip and backstabbing are the best bloodless ways to bring us down... yeah we all know that. It's about trust, respect, and what we've gone back when enough hearsay starts circulating, people start to wonder.

1. some people use other people for something...

2. some people are plain stupid

3. some people are insensitive

4. some people dont know how to to retur belongings to owner

5. some people look into first impression and thats it...

6. some people are judgemental

7. some people dont have basic courtesy.. i mean filipino courtesy... like saying thank you and offering something...

8. some people are mean...

MELANIE MARQUEZ

• My brother is not a girl; he’s a gentleman.
• That’s why I’m a success, it’s because I don’t middle in other people’s lives.
• Don’t judge my brother; he’s not a book.
• I won’t stoop down to my level.
• Hello? Bulag ka ba? Bingi ka ba? Are you dep?
• ‘Yung STD, baka sa maruming toilet lang niya nakuha yan.
• Eh, ikaw ba naman, durugin ang ari mo...Pag di ka naman manutok ng baril.
• We are lovers, not fighters.
• Kapatid ko pa rin siya. We are one and the same.
• I don’t eat meat. I’m not a carnival.
• Sumasakit ang migraine ko.
• Ang tatay ko ang only living legend na buhay!
• I keep my crown in the voltage.
• Can you repeat that for the second time around once more from the top?
• I couldn’t care a damn!
• What’s your next class before this?
• Hello, my brother Joey is out of town, would you like to wait?
• Don’t touch me not!
• You! you’re not a boy anymore! You’re a man anymore!
• Bakit ang dami mong tanong? You're so questionable.
• You can fool me once, you can fool me twice, you can fool me thrice. But you can never fool me FOUR!
• Hindi ba kayo naawa sa kapatid ko...sa mga kwento nya? Di ba kayo na-PERSUAVE ng mga kwento niya? Hindi si Joey ang tipong mambubugbog ng babae...talaga lang malapit siya sa mga gulo...PRO-ACCIDENT kasi siya eh.
• Boy Abunda: O Melanie, paano na ang showbiz career mo ngayong magmo-Mormon ka na? Melanie: Ah okay lang 'yon Boy, kasi matagal na rin akong SEMI-RETARDED.
• They should talk behind the scene...

• (answering the phone) Hello. Wait a moment. Please hang yourself.
• (before Christmas) Well, I want to spend my holidays with my family most probably out of place.
• Why I will give my calling card, I'm not a call girl. (Her reply to a certain duke when the latter is asking for her calling card.)
• Eto na po ang pinakamaligayang pasko at manigong taon sa inyong lahat. (During her acceptance speech at a Metro Filmfest awards night where her bioflick, directed by her late father Temyong Marquez, won an award.)
• Period na talaga; wala nang exclamation point. (When asked on S-Files if her present husband, Adam Lawyer, is her Mr. Right)
• And the base of my observation is... (showbiz stripped May 14 GMA Ch. 7)
• At a talk show after her break-up with Derek Dee, Melanie was asked if she had some words for Derek’s mother (whom she partly blamed for the separation). "Oo nga," said Melanie, "pero i-English-in ko para maintindihan niya." She looked into the camera and, with the peremptoriness of royalty, said, "And to you, Mrs. Dee, I have two words for you. Ang labo mo!"
• (When asked for a message to her daughter who was allegedly abused by their houseboy) Don't worry little angel, big angel is here.
• (On what they should do to the houseboy who molested her daughter) He should be put behind bar.
• (While waiting backstage during a noontime show after watching Nikki Valdez do her dance number) Nikki, you're so galing. You should go to the States. You will sell hotcakes!
• (While she's in Morning Girls With Kris & Korina promoting her movie with Aleck Bovick) Please watch HIRAM starring Aleck Baldwin (referring to Aleck Bovick) and myself. It's DIRECTOR by Romy Suzara.
• (After giving birth, and an interview on The Buzz) My answers have been prayered!
• (To ex-flame Senator Lito Lapid) Hello...Huwag kang tumahol sa sarili mong bakuran noh! (In response to being misunderstood) You know, huwag kang tumahol like dogs.

SNOOKY SERNA

- Answering a question from the See-True Panel. Snooky: "Ano kasi , she is, I mean she was, kasi past tense na nga pala..."

BB. PILIPINAS PILIPINAS CIRCA '70s

Eddie Mercado: "Of the three titles at stake, which would you want to win?" Finalist: "I want to win the Bb. Pilipinas Universe because it would be an honor to represent the Philippines in the whole Universe!"

LYDIA DE VEGA

Interview after winning against PT Usha of India for the Century Dash in 1984 Asian Games. Reporter: "What happened Lydia, mukhang bumanat ka sa ending." Lydia: "Oo nga, mabilis siya, but you know, I ran and I fast!"

Danilo Barrios

Kris Aquino: I heard sa France based ang father mo ngayon?
Danilo Barrios: Hindi po. Sa Paris.
Kris Aquino: So you’re a vegetarian?
Danilo Barrios: Opo. Kumakain din ako ng meat.

Vilma Santos

"Ang ganda ng gospel number na yon, napaka-enlighting! Teka… magpupunas lang ako, I’m sweatening!”

Again, from Vilma Santos: Excuse me, it’s not my fault anymore. It’s your fault anymore!

Angelika Jones

When asked what her role is in a new sitcom in Channel 2: “Medyo kikay ako dito pero hindi naman Over O.A.!”

VJ Heart Evangelista

Reads from a letter sender: “VJ Heart you are so charming and you are my favorite VJ! (looks at cam) Thank you! Also you are!”

Angela Velez

Announcing the Famas Awards winner: “And the Famas goes through…”

'Yan ang madalas mong maririnig sa mga kaibigan, kaklase, taong malapit sa'yo o kahit sa mga magulang mo kapag may mga taong hinuhusgahan ang iyong pagkatao.

Ngunit, tama nga ba na hayaan mo lang sila o wag mong intindihin ang iisipin o sasabihin nila? Yung tipong, "I don't know and I don't care".

Sa opinyon ko kasi, kahit anong gawin mo ay hindi mo pwedeng ipagwalang bahala ang mga ito.

Ika nga nila "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND".

Hindi ka nabubuhay sa mundong ito na mag-isa. Unless gusto mo talagang mabuhay magisa at pumunta sa Antartica. Doon tanging polar bear at penguin lang ang pwede mong makasalamuha.

Lahat ng tao magkakakonekta. Kahit sabihin mong hindi mo iintindihin ang tingin o sasabihin sa'yo ng ibang tao, wala ka pa ring magagawa. Dahil nabubuhay ka sa mundong ito na ilang milyong tao ang nakapaligid sa'yo.

Hindi mo pwedeng sabihing hindi ka maaapektuhan sa mga bagay na sinasabi nila, o ginagawa nila. Hindi ka dapat maging ipokrita at sabihing hindi ka nasasaktan. Dahil aminin na natin na sa kakaunting masakit na salitang marinig mo, para kang unti-unting pinapatay ng walang kalaban-laban. Ang tao naman kasi, pinanganak talagang sentimental at sensitibo sa mga bagay bagay. Masiyadong emosyonal.

Para kasi 'yang domino eh. Ang isang panghuhusga sa'yo ng isang tao ay maaring ipasa sa iba pang tao, at sa isa pang tao, at sa isa pa. Hanggang dumating sa punto na lahat sila masama na ang tingin sa'yo. Hanggang sa hindi mo na mabago yung impresyon na iniwan mo sa kanila. Para bang yung bato na itinapon mo sa tubig. O yung tinatawag na "Ripple Effect". Sa isang parte lang nagsimula, kumalat ng kumalat na kahit wala na yung pinagsimulan ay naandoon pa rin ang bakas na ito ay nagdaan.

Aminin na natin. Ito ang tunay na mundo. Buhay tayong mga nilalang at ito ang realidad. Yun naman ang purpose natin 'di ba? Nabubuhay tayo para matanggap ng ibang tao. Hindi man ng lahat pero kahit ang iilan man lang sa kanila. "Survival of the Fittest", di nga ba? At kung hindi tayo matututong makisama at makisalamuha sa mga kauri natin. Walang mangyayari sa atin.

Ano nga ba ang pinupunto ko sa blog na ito? Simple lang.

Kahit kailan hindi mo pwedeng sabihing "WALA AKONG PAKIALAM SA SASABIHIN NG IBA".

TAO KA, TAO AKO, TAO SILA, AT ISANG MUNDO LANG ANG ATING GINAGALAWAN.

"Summer romances end for all kinds of reasons. But when all is said and done, they have one thing in common: They are shooting stars-a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, a fleeting glimpse of eternity. And in a flash, they're gone." _the notebook_

 "I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you. And it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade." _the holiday_


Someone asked me these questions "How does one deal with hurt? How do you teach your heart it's a crime to fall in love again? Have I made the right decision of letting him go?" Erratum, These questions actually came from two people. Erratum again, two special people in my life. And I know little to answer these. I have my own share of hurt and heartbreaks. Yet it may not be the same amount of pain, But I did in my life experience the taste of bitterness, rejection, denial and betrayal. I wish not to fall in love again. I wish not to taste the bittersweet experience. Yet something inside me is pushing me to this limit. It's weird that I didn't feel much of a heartache when he decided to leave me. It had been six long years and we have gone this far yet something still went wrong. Maybe it was not meant to last. Maybe God wrote me a different love story. And that story is still unfinished. Patience is a virtue dear Magic. Why not sit and wait until He finishes writing.These are all the many changes in my life. ( and of course I am singing). Just tell me I am barking snappishly, I don't care anyway.


Now, what are the answers to all their questions. The best way to deal hurt and heartbreak is to face it, to feel it until it will hurt no more.I would rather feel it rather than running away. Because at the end, you should ought to feel pain anyway. The two parties can become losing ends. In this game, there is no winner and there is no loser. It's just that women are way too emotional compared to men. I do not know if my answers are appropriate to their situations, but for me it worked. Now, I think I have moved on.

Life is like a school. We learn our lessons. We want to take a break. And most importantly, in school we have a teacher. In life, mistakes are our teachers. We learn from them. To love is to bleed willingfully and joyfully. To love is to be wounded. These statements I got from Khalil Gibran. I am not a massochist of any sort but feeling the pain is such a wonderful experience for me. Love Love Love. You are such a wonderful feeling. Now I am totally off topic. Have I lost my mind? I am well and should not doubt my sanity.

On letting go.I know I have let go that easy, without attempting to put back the pieces. But I didn't regret anything. I didn't care if it was a wrong decision, if it was right, it felt right for me. I hate goodbyes. I hate to let go but if I am not going to do it now, How long shall I suffer?

Actions do not create karma (good or bad) when performed by an individual in the state of Moksha or liberation. "Moksha can be attained only by doing, not by a process of effort". All actions performed by one in the state of Moksha are called Dharma. Meditation is a practice aimed at giving individuals the experience of being in this objective state. An individual who is constantly in the turiya state is said to have attained moksha where their actions happen as a response to events (and not because of thought process); such actions do not result in accumulation of karma as they have no karmic effect.

One of the first and most dramatic illustrations of karma can be found in the epic Mahabharata.

SCREEEEEEEEECCCHHH That stopped me in my tracks. I looked up from cutting vegetables for our salad, held up my knife and said “excuse me?”  Men, please know better than to ever tell a woman how or what she should feel. Secondly, if you insist on telling her, do not do it while she is armed with a potato peeler and sharp knife. I could not believe that this man, who moments earlier had impressed me with his arguing skills was now bringing out very strong emotions that involved reacting with either the knife or the potato peeler. Heated words were thrown around in the kitchen and before I said something I didn’t mean, I threw down the knife and said “You finish dinner! I started it!”  I stormed off into the bathroom and planned to take out my frustrations with a salt scrub. Unlike most people, taking a minute away from a situation does not calm me down. It only fuels my belief that I am right and he is wrong. Yes, I am a 5 year old.

I walked back into the kitchen after my shower and only wanted to see 1 of 2 things. 1) Bananas, on his knees, begging for forgiveness because he was in the wrong 2) Bananas, over the oven, finishing dinner, feeling guilty because he was wrong. I saw him finishing dinner but I did not sense guilt. We moved around each other in a very small kitchen, without saying a word, without making eye contact, or touching. I was not going to be the first to break the silence so I sat there and let my thoughts get the best of me…  Fine. Don’t speak to me. Ass. He better be thinking of a really good apology under all that silence. Why were we fighting again?? Oh yeah because he felt the need to tell me what should and should not upset me. What does he know? Jesus, its already 11:00pm?!? There is no way that we are going to get over our pride, start speaking, reconcile, eat dinner and have make-up sex before midnight. He should just go. If he’s not going to speak, he should leave. Why is he being that guy??? I hate that guy! I hate feeling horrible when I did NOTHING wrong! I don’t want to deal with this anymore, he should leave.

“What are you thinking?” --- “I am thinking that I want you to leave.” He looked at me, somewhat shocked but more furious. “Fine- You want me to leave, I’ll leave”. I sat on the couch, he went into my room to get changed. He came into the living room, sat down and began putting on his socks. I hate this I hate this I hate this, is the only thought I had. My eyes were filling up with tears at the realization that he was about to be like every other man I’d known, ready to walk out the door. His socks were on and he began to tie one shoe. In my mind I was thinking Please don’t leave, can’t you see that I am crying? but my lips just wouldn’t move. He paused and sat up as the first tear fell. On my cheek, not his. “If you want me to go, I will go but I promised you I would never walk out that door.” This was the cue for the flood gates to open. I stood up, walked over to him and sat in his lap like the 5 year old girl I still am.

He wiped away my tears. We talked. I didn’t mean it….. I just felt misunderstood…. I am sorry I upset you…. I never want to hurt you…. He held me until my tears dried and then we laughed at the one shoe he had put on. This is the part where I realized that he was different in the ways that mattered. He didn’t walk away when that was the easy thing to do. We talked it out, we reconciled, we ate our dinner and we had make up sex… was it before midnight? No. Did it matter?  Absolutely not.